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		<title>To be free</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jul 2010 15:38:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A day late, but it is never to late to reflect on what freedom means to each of us, and how so many around the planet (including the USA) are much less free than I am. Check out the vid- not super music but it is an emotional message that might move some of us [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Changing Patterns</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jul 2010 00:27:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey- I posted this about a year ago. This version is an update. Enjoy. Post your feedback in the &#8216;comments&#8217; below. Thanks! This handout outlines ways you can change your behavior patterns. But first, some words from a former President of the United States: &#8220;Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Observe your mind before you react</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2010 13:06:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our unconscious automatic reactions make us miserable. What’s wrong when you’ve tried and you just don’t seem to change? Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) sees psychological flexibility as central to living a mentally and emotionally healthy life. Managing the moment you are actually living in right this second requires you to be psychologically nimble and adaptive. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Reading Material &#8211; Finding Your Own North Star by Martha Beck</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 00:04:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a good book&#8211; Finding Your Own North Star by Martha Beck.  It hsa been around for a few years but it is definitely worth a read if you have not read it yet. If you read it and your life did not change for the better, read it again- this time, do the exercises. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>No more excuses</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jan 2010 14:23:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Where to start? It is an inside job.</title>
		<link>http://askdrcliff.com/archives/618</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 12:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A lot of people who come to my office ask me &#8220;Where should I start?&#8221; As with most questions, the answer is &#8220;That depends&#8221;. The answer depends on where YOU want to go. That&#8217;s right, it is up to you. There is no answer that is always right. There is no authority figure, no book, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Cultivating the relationship you want</title>
		<link>http://askdrcliff.com/archives/593</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 23:53:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was browsing some old files and came across this. It was a handout I used at my office about 9 years ago. I like it, so here it is for you. Fundamentals of relationships. A relationship is like a garden. A garden must be cultivated. Reading books about gardening and talking about gardening can [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Values &#8211; Basic Info</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 17:04:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For some reason the past couple of weeks I have been spending a lot of time on values work. I thought I should post this to make it easy to find.Values answer questions about your ideals like:

What sort of qualities do you want to cultivate as a person?
What do you want your life to stand for?
How do you want to be in your relationships with friends?
What role do you want to play in your community? In your culture?
Deep down inside, what is important to you?
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